Let’s face it—while burping might be embarrassing for older kids and adults, babies get a free pass! Burping is actually a crucial part of their routine.
But here’s the tricky part: these tiny humans don’t always stay awake during feedings. So, what do you do when they fall asleep mid-feed? Should you wake them to burp, or let them rest? It’s not always an easy choice, but burping can help them take in more milk by relieving that “too full” feeling.
As a parent or caregiver, you’ll often find yourself deciding whether to gently wake your baby to burp or let them sleep through. Let’s explore how to do it without disrupting their nap time!
Why is burping important for babies?
Babies drink all their calories from milk, which means they often swallow a lot of air. This trapped air can cause discomfort, making babies fussy and more prone to spitting up. Regular burping helps release that air and prevents this abdominal pain, ensuring that babies stay calm and relaxed after feedings.
How to Tell If a Baby Needs a Burp
Since babies can't exactly talk, it's all about reading their cues! If your little one is squirming, fussing, or acting uncomfortable during or after a feed, it might be time for a burp break. Here are some signs that your baby could use a little help releasing some trapped air:
- Spitting up: If baby’s having trouble keeping the milk down, a burp might be just what they need.
- Gas or discomfort: Fussing or passing gas often signals that they’ve swallowed too much air.
- Pauses feeding: If the baby suddenly stops eating and seems disinterested, they may need a burp before continuing.
- Squirming and uncomfortable: Unsettled movements during a feed often mean air is causing discomfort.
- Becoming fussy after eating: If your little one is extra fussy after finishing their milk, it could be due to trapped gas.
Effective Techniques for Burping a Sleeping Baby
Pause During Feeding
If your baby’s feeding without taking a break, they might overeat and miss the chance to burp. To help, slow down the feeding process. Whether you’re switching sides during breastfeeding or before finishing a bottle, pausing for a burp can prevent gas buildup and make room for more milk.
Lay the Baby on Your shoulder
After feeding, carefully move your baby into an upright position and rest them on your shoulder. This position allows gentle pressure on their tummy to help release trapped air, while they stay relaxed and asleep. Don’t forget to keep a burp cloth handy in case of spit-ups.
Hold Chest-to-Chest
Lift your baby from a semi-upright position to sit them comfortably on your chest or sternum. This cozy hold encourages the natural release of gas, and their legs may curl into a frog position—perfect for releasing even more air. Pat their back and wait for the burp to come.
Tummy-Down Arm Support
This position, also known as the "sloth hold," allows you to gently support your baby with their tummy resting on your forearm. Their legs will dangle naturally, and the pressure from your arm can help push out any trapped gas. It’s a comfortable hold whether you’re sitting or standing.
Knee Rocking Technique
Sit comfortably and lay your baby tummy-down on your knees. Gently rock your legs side to side, patting or rubbing their back to encourage a burp. This method is soothing enough for your baby to stay asleep, while you give them time to release any air bubbles.
How Long and How Often Should You Burp Your Baby?
Burping typically takes just a minute or two. Some babies burp immediately when held upright, while others need gentle pats or tummy pressure. Aim to burp your baby every 10 minutes during feeding—midway and at the end of a bottle, or after nursing on each breast. Helping your baby fall asleep in their crib, rather than during feeding, can also make burping and bedtime smoother over time.
What to Do When Your Baby Won’t Burp After Feeding?
If your baby doesn’t burp, it’s usually no cause for concern. Sometimes, they simply don’t have air to release—especially during nighttime feeds when they eat slower. Try burping them for a minute before laying them down. If they wake up crying, check their diaper, feed them again if needed, and attempt to burp afterward. Research shows that burping doesn’t significantly reduce colic, so it’s okay to skip it if the baby seems content.
In Conclusion
Burping a sleeping baby requires patience and gentle techniques. By incorporating methods mentioned above, you can help release trapped gas without disturbing their rest. If your baby doesn't burp, don't stress—sometimes they simply don't need to. With these tips, you can ensure your baby stays comfortable and well-fed, allowing both of you to enjoy peaceful sleep.